#3 - Sitting Sex

Sitting sex is easy! It can develop naturally from a session of kissing and sexual foreplay, or you can move straight into it from any other position in bed as you have sex. Obviously, the man penetrating will feel more comfortable if he lies back on the bed as his partner sits on top of his cock. 

This position, with its two basic variations, is particular because there is a sort of “reverse role”. The bottom person takes the active role here, and the top person takes the passive one, simply lying on his back.

Actually it is simplistic to see it this way, as the top guy can d a big part with small movement of his pelvis area.

Preparation

Same warnings as always, make sure your partner is fully relaxed and lubed before starting. This position is perfect for all of you who have a big endowment, or if your partner didn’t have sex in a while, as it allows to have control on the penetration. So, a big suggestion for the bottoms here: use this position to feel your partner’s cock gently intruding into your body, make sure you take control of the speed and rhythm of its entrance.

Front Looking

The first option is to sit on the cock, facing your partner. There are tow alternatives for this position. One is to kneel on the bed, with your thighs against your partner’s sides.

Gently, put your ass on top of his dick, and start spreading you hole. slowly inserting it inside. You might need an help of your hand to give a direction. It is the best option to start with from a hot kissing session, and it allows a full control on the speed of entrance. The top guy in this case once inside can start moving his butt up an down, penetrating his partner, but only to the extend he will allow.

It is a very intimate position in my regard, even if it does not allow for a lot of movement.

The second option is to stand on top of your partner, then bend in the direction of his penis, so to have your feet on his sides, sort of ina frog position.

This position allows for a better control of the insertion and especially allows to get… more of his cock.

It also allows for some interesting play, where the bottom guy keeps up to a certain distance while his partner fuck him vigorously from the bottom. This is an especially interesting position if you sit on a couch or an armchair.

Again, a suggestion for the “bottom”, make sure you experiment on the whole length of your partners’ shaft. This position is perfect to get acquainted with his dick size and form, and can lead to interesting diversion and more positions to follow.

Backward Looking

Sort of the same as the one just described, it differs because the two guys don’t face each other. One of the most interesting aspects of this position is that the guy staying on his back sees the full extent to which his partner takes his cock.

There are two options here as well, depending on the fact that the bottom guys bends backward of forward. I suggest you practice both ways. Best way for entrance is to bend a bit backward, whereas the forward bending option is very interesting because it stretches the top’s cock into unusual position, making it into some interesting feelings.

This position as well can be temptingly played oin a sofa, like in the picture below.

And it allows for some great kissing too.

So, how to choose between backward and forward? Well there are two main reasons you would want to choose one of them depending on:

- Cock shape, and especially if it is curved (again, think that it needs to stimulate the prostate, so if it is curved forward you should use the front looking position for best feeling, opposite if it is curved downward).

- Feeling. Many people like to have their top partner “behind”, and like to be stimulated this way. Others prefer to face him and look into his eyes while fucking.

One variation

It is very easy to convert this position into a “reverse missionary” one… take this into consideration while you practice!

Summarizing

One of the greatest things about this position is that, usually, the top guy has his hands free. Which means he can use them around his lovers’ body, or simply jerk him off.

So… now is time to practice!

Enjoy… safely!

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