#2 - Missionary Style

Inspired from the “straight” world, it is surely the most enjoyable position for men in a relationship, because it is the one the allows more intimacy.This is where the partners lie on each other facing each other. It’s an intimate position that allows eye contact and a lot of bodily contact during sex.

Start with a nice rimming

There are many different variations on the basic position. The challenge for the man on top will be supporting his weight on his arms as he fucks his partner, though the “edge of the bed” sex position can help with that.

One of the big plus of this position is that allows the top the pleasure of seeing his penis entering and leaving his partner’s body as he thrusts.

Preparation

Anal sex in this position isn’t too difficult. But once again, it can be very helpful to start with some gentle play that opens up the bottoms anus. Good lubrication is always important, maybe starting with a rimming session. Also fingering your partner hole might be a good option, as this position allows a lot of fun on this.

The position

The missionary position

As mentioned the position in itself can have many different variations, depending mainly on the position of the legs of the bottom partner.

Let’s assume we’re on a bed (well, I know it may sound boring but it still is the most common place to practice sex).

The bottom person would need to spread hi legs, while the top lies on top of him. Kissing is a big part of the game here, so bottom guy might need to guide the top’s cock into his anus, if you don’t want to loose the touch at this point.

Make sure you guide him to the lubricated point. It may be necessary to raise your hips a bit, pulling your legs upward and spreading them.

This position also allows a lot of control of the bottom person on how “fast” the top gets inside, also because by moving his legs up or down, the bottom can take control of the angle of penetration (also deciding how much cock he want to let in).

To get the partner fully inside, the best option is to raise your legs completely, circling them around his hips, like in the picture here on the side.

As it can be seen, this position allows the cock to fully enter the lovers’ ass, also allowing for an ample movement of in and out for the top person.

Some hints for the top: don’t just go in and out, try to rate the basin a bit, it will make sure you better “explore” the inside of your partner. Also, make sure not to exit completely. In this position getting back in might be a bit difficult, and if you don’t want to loose the physical touch of the moment you may want to avoid this situation.

Also, this position is the best one if you have a curved cock pointing upward, as it stimulates the prostate fully.

Variation

Facing him The biggest variation assumes you simply keep the “face style”, however there are many ways to do it!

Main possibility is the top kneels while the bottom stays on his back, spreading his legs.

This position may be suitable for situations where less intimacy is requested or when the top wants to have a bigger control of the situation.

On the left picture you can see the entrance moment, it might be a good point to start slowly,in this case the bottom looses a bit the control of his hole, so the top needs to make sure not to hurt.

Depending on the sensation you want, you can can change the position of the bottom’s legs as many times as possible, controlling both the angle of entrance and the ass tightness.

Here some possible variations:

Spread Thighs

Pull the legs of your partner apart, keeping them from the thighs and keeping them spread apart.

Crossed Legs

Crossed Legs

This position allows for the most control, and the most exposed ass. The top is in full control of the situation, and the bottom’s ass is wide spread open.

One leg up

One Leg Up

In this case, you hold one of your partner’s leg on your shoulder, the other stays on the bed. It allows to have an interesting angle of entrance, as well as to manage in a better way the bottom’s ass widening.

Holding Feet

Two legs up

In this case the top keeps both legs up, either by holding his partner ankles (useful also if you like licking feet), or by putting them on your shoulder.

Again, moving your partner’s legs allows to open up or close a bit your partner’s ass.

Take care, this position (especially if done in the standing variation, seen on the left picture) is the one that gets you deeper into you partner’s ass. Which also means this position could be painful for some of your counterparts, so make sure you respect your partner’s exclamations.

Summarizing

This is the most popular sex position, familiar, friendly, intimate and good for expressing some fundamental aspects of who you are: the active participant, the giver of your penis (and the taker of your partner’s body), the powerful, thrusting man, the relaxed, receiving man, and so on. It’s good for men in a relationship to express their intimacy and love. There are many variations to be experienced - how tightly each partner has their legs together, whether one stands or both lie down; indeed, there must be a hundred variations of this sex position to try and enjoy.

Both partners can look at the other as they fuck, and express their emotions in their faces. They can talk, shout or vocalise what they are feeling and see the response on their partner’s face. In many variations of the position, deep and very satisfying penetration is possible.

So… now is time to practice!

Enjoy… safely!