The GaySpirit’s Gay Sex Guide
The Ultimate Guide to Male to Male Sexual Pleasure, involving Body, Mind and Spirit into making your Erotic and Love experience a Memorable one. Always.
Are you satisfied with your sexual life? Have you ever wondered how to please your partner? Have you ever envied a friend for his sexual charge? You have been watching a porn movie, and always wondered how to last more?
These and many other questions affect our daily relationship with sex. And for many gay or bisexual people male to male sex is still a topic not to be discussed. Few people to get advices from, not really many opportunities to ask questions, and when relevant content can be found (for example on the internet) there’s still a sense of general difficulty to apply the outlined tips.
That’s why I created this GaySpirit’s Gay Sex Guide.
With a collection of continuously updated articles I regularly post, I’m trying to give you hands on advice on how to improve your sexual life, discovering the real pleasures of male to male sex. Without taboos of any kind!
Plus, I’d like to pass over to you an important concept. That really good sex is well beyond pure mechanics. In this guide you’ll find lot of techniques. But they alone don’t work, unless you’re able to build the connection with your partner(s) in developing a sexually arousing experience.
Some of the feedback so far:
Your sex guide is really inspiring! Feels like a good thriller book! I’m always wanting to read the next episode… and see what’s cuming next! Keep it going’!
A reader
And from the other side of the world…
Love Your Guide!
(John, Australia)
And really “straight” to the point…
Funny, I’m a Straight Guy and I like you Blog (Anon)
And something that made me *blush*…
Your guide is the BEST Gay Sex Guide available on the web.
Your ability to balance technique, details and shortness, as well as the right images, is really great.
Would love to see one in print to keep at hand near the bed :-P
(Chris)
The guide is enriched with highly visual guidance aiding you in the development of your experience. Whether you’re looking to improve your oral sex skills, or your anal sex experience, or you’re willing to discover the naughty side of threesomes and orgies, or just dedicate a bit of your time to masturbation and auto-eroticism, you will find here your answers. And if not, you can always directly ask a question, to which you will get a prompt and honest answer.
I’m calling things by their real name, so don’t get worried if you find words such as 69, cock, fuck, cum, suck, rim etc. Aren’t these the real fun activities we want to explore? So why hiding them under a scientifically boring language?
So, through this page you will have an easier and reasoned access to the Gay Guide structure, with direct links to the different articles in a sort of reasoned orde. The Tumblr Blog structure doesn’t allow to easily catch all of the articles at one, but through this page you can easily find all the details you need. As this page grows constantly based on the articles I publish, bookmark this page and remember to check it often!
Introduction
A general overview of my plan. The introduction was a general article on the reason why of this blog’s posting.
Developing a Positive Sexuality
Sex is actually not just about… sex. It’s more about developing a positive attitude in life, building connections with other human beings, developing knowledge and intimacy. That’s why I will explore also these aspects of sexuality, in a section dedicated less to the sexual practice and more on how you feel about it.
- Sexuality one step forward: Building Human Connections
- Starting from Knowing Yourself
- Connecting with Others
- Creating the Intimacy
Masturbation
Good sex starts from an improved knowledge of our own body. And how can we achieve this if not by exploring ourselves from an auto-erotic perspective? That’s why a good number of articles is dedicated to Masturbation, exploring the many different aspects of self-stimulation and body knowledge.
The Basics
- Jerking Off - An Introduction
- Common Misconception about Masturbation
- Not Just Jerkin’ Off. Taking care of your (and his) Erogenous Areas
Jerking Off Techniques
- The Fist Technique
- The Backhand Technique
- The Three Finger Technique
- The Fingertip Technique
- The Crossed Finger Technique
Other Techniques
Prostate Autoeroticism
Oral Sex
Oral Sex is for sure one of the most appreciated sexual satisfaction techniques. But there’s a lot more than just plugging your mouth on your partner’s cock. This is what we want to explore both into the blow job area and exploring also rimming.
The Basics
- Blow-jobs
- Rimming
- Deep-Throating
- Mouth-Fucking
- What about Cum?
- Forcing Entry
- 8 Steps to the Best Blow-Job Ever
- Rimming: Make it a pleasurable ans safe experience!
Oral Sex Positions
- The Basic 69
- The Side 69
- The Bottom Up Position
- The Siesta Position
- The Circle of 69 Position
- The Delta Position
- The Missionary Oral Position
- The Kneeling Position
- The Standing 69 Position
- The Oral Side Fuck Position
- The Rear End Position
- The Butterfly Position
Rimming Positions
Self-Sucking
In between Masturbation and Oral Sex, self-sucking (or Auto-Fellatio) is a hard to achieve technique, with some interesting results.
Anal Sex
Many people believe that anal sex is easy. Other simply refuse it because they had an initial bad experience. What I’d like to focus on is that there are many techniques to render the overall anal experience fantastic, and way beyond the usual split of top and bottom world!
The Basics
Generic Positions
Detailed Positions
- The Doggie Style Position
- The Lifting the Trunk Position
- The Oyster Position
- The Greyhound Position
- The Scissor Position
- The Double Y Position
- The Tree Position
- The Saddle Position
- The Crow Position
- The Double Chair Position
- The Swing Position
- The Butterfly Position
- The Bamboo Position
- Deep Anal Penetration
- The Easy Side
- The Bonobo Position
- The Spoon Position
- The Sleeper Position
- The Intruder Position
- The Flying High Position
- The Yin and Yang Position
Group Sex
Is two really a limit? For many is not! However you face it, the moment you extend your sexual experience to somebody else than just your partner, things may increase in complexity. Here in these posts some advices on how to make this as well a great experience!
Basics
Group Masturbation
Threesome
- Threesome: an introduction
- The Double Ice Cream
- Licking the Tree
- Lick & Rim
- The Oral Chain
- The Bridge Position
- The Reverse Bridge Position
- The Sandwich Position
- The Dual Front Position
- The 69-7 Position
Double Penetration
Orgies
Toys
When “meat” is not enough, or more easily when we just want to add that “spicy” touch to our life, Gay Sex Toys may come handy. Here we explore some of the most common ones, for your pleasure.
- Gay Sex Toys
- Cock Ring
- Dildos
- Anal Beads
- Prostate Stimulator
- Butt Plugs
- BDSM World
- Penis Jewelry
- Sling
Fantasies
Gay Sex has a lot to do with Fantasies and dreaming. In this series of posts we’ll explore some of the most relevant fantasies, and how to deal with them, with some tips on how to make them true (if possible).
Sexual Partner Fantasies
- Ephebic partner
- Bears
- Leather men
- Daddy type
- Master/slave relationship
- Uniformed Men
- Platonic Love
- Twins
- Ménage à Trois
- Straight Partner
Location Fantasies
- Kitchen
- Bathroom
- Workplace
- Swimming Pool
- Sauna
- Beach
- Elevator
- Gym
- Outdoor
- Train / Airplane
- Dark Room
- Public Toilets
- Car
Occasions Fantasies
Safe Sex
Safety is vital when we talk about sex. However I’d like also to take a very pragmatic approach to safe sex, that does not include the anxiety of any carnal contact, nor the desperate Russian roulette of mere bare-backing.
So, I truly hope you enjoy my articles and what I’ve been trying to achieve. Again, suggestions as well as content contribution are really welcome!
But above all, have Fun!











